It’snot easybeing a member of the royal family — just ask Prince Harry. After years of navigating a complicated relationship with the press, the Duke of Sussexmet his wife Meghan Markleand suddenly became even more protective of his privacy. The constant criticism of Markle forced Prince Harry to make scathing statements to defend her honor. Now he’s a father and just wants to give son Arche Harrison as much of anormal life as possible.
But what is normal, exactly, when your whole job is beingpart
of the public eye? That’s what Prince Harry and Meghan Markle ae trying to figure
out. However, many royal followers aren’t happy with how secretive they’ve been
lately. Even Prince Harry’s father Prince Charles had a few harsh words for his
son about what it means to be a working royal.
Prince Charles warned Prince Harry about his role in life
Everyone loves to blame Meghan Markle for making Prince Harry increasingly reticent, but in reality, he’sbeen that way for yearsbefore he even met her. During an interview with ITV several years ago, the Duke of Sussex admitted that his father Prince Charles has been attempting to drive this point home for his whole life.
During the interview, he said, “I am not normal. Much as I’d like to be normal, I am not normal and my father reminds me of that the whole time. I’ve tried, we’ve [himself and Prince William] both tried to be as normal as we can.”
Marrying Meghan Markle made everything worse
There’s no question that Prince Harry loves Meghan Markle and vice versa. However, his marriage to her is ironically making him even more inclined to secrecy. As a biracial American divorcee actress, Markle is not exactly the woman everyoneexpected him to marry. And the critics are making Prince Harry extra defensive.
this to Prince William’s wife, Kate Middleton, and you’ll see thehuge
differences. The press hounded her for years before she and Prince William
got married but they weren’t nearly as mean about her background. Now with
years of practice, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge have found a balance between
public and private life.
interest goes back to Princess Diana
Queen Elizabeth has always enjoyed public popularity, but the world’s obsession with the British royal family and their lives didn’t really start until Prince Charles married the young and beautiful Princess Diana. When their union turned into a cheating scandal, people became even more obsessed.
Sadly, Princess Diana’s untimely death in 1997 is at least partially attributed to the relentless pursuit of the paparazzi. She tried to give her sons a normal life but it was hard with cameras constantly following them around. Now Prince Harry is facing the same issues with his son and trying desperately to protect him from the worst aspects of royal life.
Harry will never be normal, but he can try
Harry is faced with the impossible task of pleasing everyone. In order to publicize
the causes and issues he cares about plus continue hiscareer
as a working royal, he does need to share parts of his life that he’d
rather keep private. However, he also must protect his wife and son from the
constant attention that wounded him so deeply as a child.
that Prince Harry will never be ‘normal’, but he can attempt to find balance in
the strange world of the royal family.